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18 Things Sobriety Will Save You From In Just One Night

Have you ever counted up all the things you have to deal with after a night of drinking? Honestly, the hangover is just the beginning!

If you’re debating whether or not to stay sober over the festive season, I’ve got something important to share with you today.

There are 18 things that staying sober will save you from during your next party or family gathering. It’s important you know exactly what you’re letting yourself in for when you pick up a drink…

Here’s my list of 18 things:

No more agonising over how much you can drink, when to start or whether you’ll get your fill. The mental gymnastics vanish, leaving you free to just enjoy the event.

Skip the hassle of angling for the bartender’s attention. You’re free to relax and socialise without worrying about refills.

Sober nights mean no shocking bar tabs or impulsive rounds for others. Your wallet will thank you.

There’ll be no awkward moments or drunken behaviour to haunt you for months – especially in front of work colleagues or family.

Sobriety lets you focus on meaningful conversations and genuine connections which, after all, are the real point of social gatherings.

You’ll actually recall the details of conversations, ensuring you’re present and supportive for friends who may need you.

Alcohol creates a bubble that hinders communication and connection. Staying sober ensures clarity and avoids miscommunication.

No more misplaced phones, purses or keys. Sobriety keeps you mindful of what you came with.

Skip the costly, often-unreliable taxi ride. Driving home late at night on clear roads is a feeling of pure freedom.

Sobriety helps you dodge the late-night, fast-food binges and the next-day, greasy breakfasts.

You know that feeling when you’ve had just one or two glasses in public, but it wasn’t really satisfying enough? Trying to drink moderately can fuel an alcohol binge when you get home – by staying sober you can skip this altogether.

Sobriety ensures you don’t forget life’s little tasks, like letting out the dog or prepping for the next day.

Staying sober means you’ll avoid oversharing on social media or texting things you wish you hadn’t. Waking up remembering everything is priceless.

The sober version of you will have the energy to get undressed properly, remove make-up, floss your teeth and get comfortable – no waking up in yesterday’s clothes.

If you’re sober and you’ve been out the night before, you might wake up a bit tired. But that’s nothing compared to staggering to bed in the early hours and waking up just a few hours later, unable to sleep.

This one’s a no-brainer. No headaches, nausea or groggy mornings to ruin the day ahead.

You’ll avoid the post-party anxiety of wondering exactly what you said or what others think about your actions.

Sobriety keeps you from falling into a spiral of: “I’ve ruined it, may as well keep drinking”. By staying sober at your next festive party, you can prevent a weekend – or even a whole week – of drinking because there doesn’t seem any point in trying to “be good”.


Hi, I'm Kate

I founded The Sober School to show you there’s another way out of your shame that doesn’t involve AA or rehab. 

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6 responses

  1. Thank you Kate. You covered a lot good reasons not to drink. My favorite when I pull off sobriety for any length of time , ( I look forward to taking your class in January), are my peaceful mornings. Everything is better, my coffee, my attitude, my gratitude. Let me put it this way, I have “never” regretted not drinking the morning after, no matter how hard staying sober the night before was.

  2. Hi Kate I’m currently on day 60 of my sober journey and actually looking forward to my office Christmas party for all of the reasons above. I’m not saying I haven’t been tempted but at least 3 or 4 of these come into my head and made me realise it’s just not worth it. Currently enjoying experimenting with different drinks rather than just sitting with a lime and soda and finding this adds some interest. Thank you so much for your advice. It’s always good to have these reminders x

    1. Congratulations on 60 days Joanne, that’s fabulous! Nowadays, bars and restaurants offer a much-improved selection of non-alcoholic options, so enjoy experimenting to discover your favourites. It’s certainly not enjoyable to be stuck with a warm glass of cola or flat lemonade! I wish you a fun filled office party this year, complete with lasting memories of every moment.

  3. Thank you Kate, this reminds me all the benefits of being sober. My husband and kids will be so pleased if I stay sober over the festive period and I can spend the time with them all and have extra money to spend on other things like treating them to lunch, dinner or a. show and showing them that we can all have a great time together. I’m looking forward to a sober Christmas time ❤️

    1. Yes indeed Christine, because that’s exactly what this season is all about. Spending quality time with our loved ones and being fully present for every experience. ❤️

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